While our focus is rural communities, we turn no child away. IBYR has kids coming from as far as an hour and a half away to partake in our monthly meetings, and from the large cities. This speaks to the need of more youth programs because queer kids, indeed, know who they are at a young age. We allow them space to evolve and grow and change as they feel comfortable. 

We are more than monthly meetings. We communicate with kids regularly to check-in and provide support in any way they need. Most kids are doing well and that makes us Rocks so happy, but there are those who have more struggles in life. IBYR has addressed bullying issues, food insecurity, healthy relationship advice, applying for needed programs, and coming out or not coming out issues. We are what these wonderful kids need most...Rocks. Whatever that child/teen needs to feel whole, happy, supported and loved is what we have to offer. 

Many parents want to support their children. Having an LGBTQ+ child may bring many different feelings for parents. We are a safe place to discuss those feelings, to say things that you can not discuss and should not discuss with your child. I'll Be Your Rock is a Rock for parents and caregivers as well. The importance of parents getting this right from the start is paramount. We can help. You are not alone.

Allies are paramount to a healthy, happy queer person. Most people want to be allies but wonder what they can do or how they can be better. Allies in our program are called Rocks and we welcome you. Being an ally can be as simple as honoring pronouns and as extensive as standing up for LGBTQ+ rights. All are important. Letting people know that you are a safe space makes other closeted allies speak out also. Your role is immeasurable. Allies can even reach out to find out how they can host their own chapter of I'll Be Your Rock.

Rural or small towns often have the reputation that they are not inclusive, nor a safe space for LGBTQ+ community. IBYR knows that the best way to help queer youth is to enlighten the communities they call home. As we have found in our founding community of Vermontville Michigan is that the majority of people are closeted allies. Perhaps they were unaware that there is a need for them to be loudly supportive. Once they know, they rise to the occasion. IBYR will help guide chapters in enlightening their community. Will there be hate? Yes, but an elightened community will not tolerate them. 

At I'll Be Your Rock we have taken on homophobic school board members and hateful citizens that are willing to speak out. IBYR has the knowledge, expertise and resources to take on school issues. We advocate for students rights and can help you take on issues for disadvantaged students. IBYR has taken on GSA and bullying issues with success. No child, nowhere, should feel like their school is not a safe place to be.